I’m sorry, are you trying to wound me by using my daughter against me? You’re pathetic.
Regardless, a fetus is not “someone.” It’s not a person. It’s a fetus. It has the potential to be a person, but only once it becomes aware; that awareness comes from birth.
As for my decision to have my daughter: I thought I was ready. I thought I could handle it and I felt it was most responsible to have her. Parenthood has shown me just how difficult it is to raise a child and has influenced my position as a pro-choice advocate. I, in no way, regret my choice, but no one should commit to this level of responsibility - or the level of exhaustion pregnancy puts one through - unless they want to.